Think about how weird it would be if the paparazzi was following your every move.  On one hand, your marriage would have to stay solid because if you stepped out with anyone other than your spouse, you’d never be able to keep it secret.  But on the other hand, if you want to do something sweet and surprise your beloved, the gossip hounds can ruin this as well.  Like this recent item from People.com about Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman in their “Caught in the Act” section. 

“Keith Urban picking holiday gifts for his wife at London’s Harvey Nichols boutique…”

Okay, so far so good.  There’s plenty of variety at that store.  Nothing ruined yet.  But wait!

“The country crooner spent a lot of time at the By Kilian counter, scoping out the perfect fragrances for Kidman before finally settling on four perfumes, including the Absinthe Verte.”

Great.  Hope Nicole doesn’t read People.com, or my Tidbits page for that matter.  Nicole, if you are a Tidbit fan, I sincerely apologize!